Steve Elder is a keynote speaker and a coach who works with individuals and corporate teams. He draws on personal and professional experiences from twenty years in the financial services industry, to challenge those he works with to begin living in earnest, with passion, and to see life through a different lens.

A graduate of the University of Tennessee, Steve lives in Murfreesboro, TN with his wife and two teenage children. How Much More Longer? is his first book.

 



Just after graduating high school, Steve was hit head-on by a drunk driver resulting in a near fatal car crash. With time, the physical wounds healed but the most damaging ones – those to his self-image, belief system and worldview – were neither identified nor treated. For more than a decade, his life appeared on track to the outside world and to himself. He did what he thought he was supposed to be doing; he graduated from college, got married, had two kids, played golf on the weekend with buddies and launched a successful career. It was only when he formed close ties with a group of men in a small group that he began to see that he had been living in auto-pilot, without clear direction. He felt alone, empty and stuck.

By sharing his story in the small group and later with a wider audience, Steve learned that many people have the same worries, secret thoughts, and personal battles. While not everyone has gone through a car wreck, they are equally damaged, without direction and in need of healing.

The prescribed remedy is simple and within everyone’s reach. One must have the courage to be vulnerable, share of oneself and receive others in turn. Change neither happens quickly nor in a vacuum. It requires time, patience and community. The process begins by asking oneself hard, probing questions such as those posed in his coaching sessions, speeches and book How Much More Longer?. By awakening the soul and choosing one’s path with intention, everyone is capable of achieving the highest levels in one’s personal, professional and spiritual lives.